There are a lot of brothers said, chasing girls too anxious, although watching the tutorials understand the reasoning, but in the process of chasing girls are always eager to succeed.

I just joined the new unit, she is my colleague, but different departments, because the supervisor arranged to plan the end of the year activities, there was a brief opportunity to work together.

I have a pretty good feeling about her, and then added WeChat chat for a period of time, the process of her reply is also okay, and go to my circle of friends to comment, there are a few times to take the initiative to send me WeChat.

Christmas want to ask her, a week in advance of the invitation, she said something to shirk. I haven't contacted her in over a week because I've been busy and I'm not in the same department.

If I want to ask her out again to get to know her better, what should I do?

In fact, a situation like this is relatively simple, you still lack a sense of connection, a short time together and interaction, and then cut off, you have to regain the previous maintenance of that little familiar feeling.

Unless your face value is particularly high, ask a girl is very easy, but from the point of view of your message, it should not be handsome to the point of no friends, so it is still good to follow the normal process to go.

Your priority is not to ask her out, but to establish a sense of familiarity, so that she trusts you, in short, is "friendly but indifferent" relationship, no need for her above friendship.

You haven't been in touch for a while, you should be thinking about how to get in touch with her, such as WeChat, or commute to and from work, and have a good conversation, bring each other closer, rather than thinking about how to ask her out.

I think your handling is not outrageous, some guys are afraid of the girl ignored, so they directly confessed, which will certainly scare the girl, because jumped a level, from the lack of contact to feel the relationship, how can the girl accept, even the basic trust has not been established, even if the girl wants to make friends with you, it is a difficult thing, not to mention to accept his confession.

You are now in a situation where you simply can't get out, before chatting with the okay can't get out, not to mention now have no contact with the state.

With a relationship of trust, you can not only make the next invitation, if off-duty chance encounter, you can also come to an instant date, such as in the off-duty road to eat a meal together, drink something.

In addition, pay attention to the taboo of office romance, try to low-key pursuit, so as not to let each other become the talk of the town among colleagues, so the girl will be very difficult to do.

Chasing girls is not I chase you, she promised you, such a simple process, it is a process of recognition, familiarity, trust, ambiguity, advancing the final determination of the relationship, can not be overstepped, a step in the wrong step, the girl can be away from you, a lot of similar examples have already illustrated the problem, this is all a bloody lesson, brothers must not be in a hurry, the requirements of the steady.