Women think hitting on and being hit on is just a game. People just make small talk with each other, and only when they are asked for a phone number, such as "Why don't you tell me your phone number so I can call you ......?" , that's when they come up with their own standards.

I know most women go out on the weekend with the thought, "I don't even think I'll meet any Prince Charming in a club, I just enjoy the attention, it makes me feel more confident. Of course I like the free drinks, I like showing off when I dance with my girlfriends, I like the feeling of men being attracted and worshiping me, etc."

From my point of view, women are attracted to things like fame, money, and power because they have an unconscious feeling, either genetically or socially, that men are more intelligent than women, are more interesting, can give women the lifestyle they like, and most importantly, can give women the feeling they need.

This involves the psychological principle of the "halo effect". Humans naturally assume that those who are attractive and powerful are smarter and more trustworthy.

From the time she is a teenager, a woman has an image of Prince Charming in her mind; she wants to meet a man with this image. It seems like Disney should be thanked for this; they have made women more convinced of the existence of fairy tales.

Anyway, I just want people to realize that rich, powerful and famous men have an inherent advantage from the very beginning of their acquaintance with a woman, so much so that a woman may even see something in him that is not even there. However, if you understand how to get a woman's attention and how to give her the feeling she needs, you have the same advantage over her that the rich men have.

The tall, handsome, or prestigious rich man seems to have an innate switch in a woman's emotional circuitry, and all he needs to do is flick a button to stir up feelings in a woman's heart. Then if you neither belong to the rich and powerful, nor tall and handsome, you need to learn how to install such a switch in the woman's emotional circuit. Once you have such a device, you can easily trigger their feelings. Thankfully, trying to control a woman's emotions is not a difficult task, whereas controlling a man's emotions is hard as hell.

When women reach a certain level of interest in you, they start to care about what kind of feelings you can give them. Even if you don't understand what this means, you just need to take it as true and believe in it. You have to show that you are confident that you will be the perfect match for a woman and that your presence will make her feel wonderful.

Women will pick up on your confidence and respond to it.

Start by asking yourself:

"What stance should I take to walk in order to gain favor with a woman?"

"How should I talk to gain favor with women?"

"What should I do differently to make women think I'm the man of their dreams?"

Find the answers and start doing so. When you talk to women, imagine that they will definitely be attracted to this conversation. Think this way and you are sure to do it; and when you do, women will indeed think it was a wonderful conversation.