Underneath the facade, all women have a "shadow" or dark side.

This dark side is that her ideal man needs to be in control of himself, his life, and her.

They will never admit this, not even to themselves.

But this subconscious part of them does determine what they really need. They have an inner contempt for weak people (especially men); such men try to give them everything they want, but the result is true: in their conversations with their partners they only mention, "Oh, he's just a tool for me to use when I want something."

My experience with gifts or other things that men buy for women is that most women like to receive them (and even obtain things by some means), but women must dislike those who give them too much and lose respect for them in their hearts.

The truth is that, especially for some popular women, their goal is simply to get men to please them and obtain what they want (and in the worst case scenario, they resort to all means to get it). Again, I want to repeat, that is their goal. And men don't know or don't believe this when they do know, so women get it frequently and achieve their goals.
(Another thing I want to say is that most women have a certain amount of disdain in their hearts for their beauty. In the dark side, they yet want to get away from this real life where they have beauty because for them, being approached by a man is more because of their appearance than because of themselves. Revealing this insight to women is also very damaging.)

Men always act as if they are ass-kissers because they are afraid that women will feel uneasy and resentful and leave. But the truth is that by doing so, they make it easier for women to leave. This is one of the paradoxes with the self-fulfilling prophecy theory. When a woman cries for something, men always think, "I should go over there and please her or I'll lose her. Even if it's ridiculous to do so, I have to do it ......"

But the truth is that doing so is bad for her, bad for you, and bad for your relationship. Instead of indulging a woman in acting like a child, she should be treated with coldness bordering on ruthlessness.

Although it goes against your instincts, I have to emphasize again that we are dealing with women and they are not rational creatures. The reasons for their various behaviors are too complex to speculate on.

The correct solution is to not try to please her and just treat her like anyone else. Do it differently than those who wish to approach her by pleasing. Leave them to their own devices, discuss issues with them as you would with a male friend or family member (in the tone of "I think of you as a friend, and I'm saying this for your own good", as if you were treating a regular friend), laugh and play with them; that's what you should do, and let the other men do the pleasing.

Sometimes there's another situation where women sleep with rich guys who please them for money, or with handsome guys who don't treat them well, just to fulfill their physical needs.

But beyond that, being proud, honest, challenging, confident, funny, and in control is what matters to an average guy who can take care of himself and make enough money to live comfortably. Such a man without trying to impress a woman is a challenge for any woman (and women love that); such a man tends to win a woman's heart more easily than any other type of man.

The difference between these two types of men is that the former doesn't just keep her interested, it's a challenge for her (which is a feeling not often experienced by women). A man who learns to do this gets not only her body, but her interest and preference. Doing this at the same time puts her into your rhythm, while gaining control of the whole thing for you!

Note: If these points of mine are incomprehensible, or unbelievable to you, I suggest you go to the mall, find some beautiful women, show them this article, and then let them tell you if it's accurate. If you are naturally paranoid, you won't believe them even if they tell you that this content is indeed prepared. I've asked a lot of beautiful women and almost all of them have told me that I'm right about these ideas.

You also need to know that there are indeed some people in this world who are favored by God and have the looks, fame, personality and all the other qualities that attract women, which makes it natural for women to open their arms to them and accept them.

If you are one of these lucky people, then congratulations!

If you're not (and I'm not, so I can understand where you're coming from), then it's time for you to learn how to get into women's minds so you can entice them to open up to you. It may take you minutes or even an hour of talking ...... but if you learn these techniques that I am going to teach you, you are bound to have success and get women to throw themselves at you in return.

Remember, all roads lead to Rome and there are different paths to achieving this kind of attraction. There are shortcuts and there are also longer roads that are challenging and require more skill. But, as long as you are willing to learn, you will be a success.