What is the right way to look at relationships? This is very important and can be overlooked by many people


How to establish the correct concept of love? Everyone has to go through a very beautiful period, which is love, so establishing a good view of love in love can make our love more meaningful.

Everyone has his or her own concept of love, and the concept of love is the view and attitude towards the issue of love.

We also according to their own concept of love and love, but there are many people in love will always appear a lot of problems, but it seems to be unable to solve, in fact, just some incorrect concept of love.

Just like some people say that relationships should be faithful and dedicated, this is a correct view of relationships.

But love is not a person's thing, love is a two-person thing, your outlook on love is faithful and dedicated, you are so on love, but the other side of the outlook on love?

Boys' concept of love may be the most is good to their favorite person, to pay, it seems that this concept of love seems to be no problem, but often become "licking dog" (Xiao Zhou that is: only love others do not know how to love themselves).

In love, we like a person is often change, is not it?

Because of the love in love is conditional, and so after the sweet time, love will become like that expired bread, no longer sweet, will be full of contradictions, like will become no longer like.

When we are in love, we will show the best side, but with time, our own shortcomings are slowly exposed.

It was once said that love is omnipotent and can embrace everything, but will it really be like that in reality?

For example:

Girls do not like people who smoke and drink, when they are in love, they will not find out, but after they are together, they are exposed, whether girls will still like it as before.

Or girls in love will make up and paint beautiful, but after being together, will also slowly become casual dress, especially those who make up before and after make-up is two people, that the boys are really do not mind.

When we fall in love later, in fact, can not be separated from a concept of love, love before and after the changes in love, are in the concept of love under the conditions allowed to occur.

Boys drink and smoke, his concept of love is that he is good to you ah, so it does not affect, but the girl will be less like the boy.

The girl becomes casual, her view of relationships is that she is loyal and devoted, so it doesn't matter, and again the guy will like the girl less.

In the case of the relationship concept are right, because of the decrease in like, will lead to an increase in conflict, just because of the lack of a love for themselves.

So love others and be able to love yourself, don't use loving others as an excuse to not love yourself.

If you can't even love yourself well, then how can you love others?

In fact, most of the conflicts in many relationships are caused by not loving yourself, just like some guys are really not too clean or guys become lazy and not progressive.

Less that love themselves, in a relationship, will produce a variety of contradictions, and finally break up, leading you to feel that love is so difficult.

The correct concept of love becomes important, especially the concept of love yourself.

Love yourself, will make yourself good, through all kinds of to improve themselves, dare to ask who do not like, a more excellent you it.

In love you think the other party loves you, will accept everything you, you ask each other, get the answer will also be can, but is it true?

Think about it differently, do you accept it yourself? Especially accepting that the other person has flaws that you can't accept.

Love is tolerant of everything, and it's all under the condition of liking, or under the view of love that you have.

The lack of self-love in a relationship can really slowly consume the like of the other person, right in the middle of your life, and eventually, whether you are faithful and dedicated, or just want to be good to the other person, but found that it seems to be the other person has changed, become no longer love.

When you break up you may still be asking, why did the other person break up?

How do you want the other person to answer?

Is it disappointment in you, is it dislike for you, or is it your shortcomings.

Maybe you think it's because the other person has changed, become less in love with you, become moved on, but it seems like it's all from you to the other person.

You think that your sincere concentration, your deep love, your give can make the other person will not change heart, but in the end these will become your unwillingness, and sadness feel confused.

But what is wrong with this relationship?

We all have the right concept of love, but only because of the lack of comparison of the most important point in the concept of love: love yourself.

We want to have a great love affair, but in the end it always ends in failure.

Simply because we do not properly arrange the performance of this life, although we are very serious, so lead to such a result.

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