There are always problems that arise in a relationship, some of them are due to the lack of freshness, lack of understanding and trust, all of these can make the two individuals in a relationship to produce many, many problems, and finally may lead to a breakup.

There are ways to solve problems, and when you understand the root cause of everything, you will know how to solve it.

Freshness
At the beginning of the two people together with each other have a sense of freshness, you will understand each other, humble each other, in such a way to get each other's goodwill, this time the relationship so that you feel is sweet, many needs will be satisfied.

Who will not expose their own shortcomings, more show their own advantages, for example, the other side want to eat what, you will no matter how far you will go to buy, in this way to make each other satisfied, because care about each other's feelings of everything, more do not want to lose each other.

With action, there is no shortage of sweet words to coax people, and women may be heard as if the heart sprinkled with honey, women may think that you are the best person in the world; Similarly, women in the eyes of men, it is like a lover's eyes out of the West. Because of the freshness, between the two are not completely understand the situation, your eyes are each other's good, and will even put each other to a certain degree of beautification, to the direction you think imagine.

But the truth will be so? As the novelty diminishes, you will see each other clearly.

Why the freshness will become gone? Because the two together for a long time, will be back to the real self. In love will look for their own comfortable lifestyle, the kind of disguise will slowly metamorphosis down, so that they will become more and more real.

At this time they are looking for their own comfortable lifestyle, and the other's lifestyle, may produce differences, thus creating problems.

So how do you keep things fresh?

It's all about fulfilling needs, and men need to be admired! To be recognized! To be supported! And women need to feel safe! A sense of ritual! A sense of being favored!

Anyone in a relationship wants me to be nice to you while also getting a proper response from the other person.

For example: today is Valentine's Day, women will be more concerned, who would not want their boyfriend to give her a sense of ceremony, so that she feels favored, so that she feels a sense of security. (Though some will say they don't care, aren't women always tongue-tied?)

When fulfilled by her, she will feel that you are so handsome (adore), the best boyfriend in the world (approve), and that no matter what difficulties you have, she wants to get through them with you (support).

Will there be any lack of freshness in such a life? It's just that everyone is usually so busy with all kinds of things that they often neglect the people around them.

The reason why some people never lack freshness in their relationships is because they know how to take time out of their lives to meet each other's needs and surprise each other.

Freshness, but also just an expectation of you, just together, you can always create some surprises for each other, so that each other feel happy and happy, these surprises, so that women feel, the sense of ceremony of life, your sense of preference for her, her sense of security naturally, she will give you, recognition and worship, what she will not support you?

Mutual understanding
In addition to freshness in love, indispensable is the mutual understanding of two people.

After two people get along for a long time, sometimes there will be a kind of illusion, is that the other party does not seem to understand me at all.

Let's take a simple example:

In a relationship, when a woman wants more companionship, and a man is busy to give her a good future, when the ideas are different, conflicts will arise.

The woman will feel that the man does not love her anymore because of the lack of companionship, the woman will be psychologically unbalanced, and even feel aggrieved, she just wants a companion.

And because the male wants to give her a good future, he may neglect to her, she will feedback her emotions to the male, when she gives feedback, she may not directly say, I want you to accompany me, but she will use other ways to make the male guess, such as: are you having someone outside.

And the male may be busy and when he hears such suspicion, he just thinks, you don't trust me anymore and then doesn't want to explain. The female then thinks, no explanation explains the default.

Conflicts erupt all of a sudden, just because of the lack of understanding on both sides. In fact, nothing happened, and finally made up, but also feel as if there is no love, will not tolerate their own.

Is this really the case? Just lack of understanding ah, an effective communication, because and lead to such a result.