Being in love is something we all experience, and it's also different for everyone because everyone experiences it differently.

For what is love like? Some people fail and find it painful, others succeed and find it very sweet. There are others who have not experienced it, so they can only listen to others to say what it is like, some hear that it is sweet, and some say it is bitter, unforgettable, etc., and finally only brainstorm what it is like.

What should love be like? Probably no one has ever really figured it out.

Two days ago, someone asked me, such a problem: and his girlfriend fell in love for 5 months, she can only accept hand-holding, even if there is only one person in the case of hooking shoulders or arm around the waist, she can not accept, leaning too close to let me roll, try to go overboard a little bit tougher, but she will be directly angry and cold violence. Look at other people in love, are hugging, and I'm in love can only pull the hand, is not she does not love me ah, want to break up ah.

I seem to seem to see the shadow of love from this problem.

I asked him to fall in love, how should I talk about it?

He said that this is his first time to fall in love, and not very good, just to see other people fall in love are hugging, between me and her, can only pull the hand, I feel as if their own love is not the same as others.

(Human instinct, will not be imitated, see others how to do, and then everyone is like this, can not say right or wrong, because everyone is like this.

When you fall in love, you become like this, everyone does this, you don't do this, is there something wrong.)

Ask him again: why some people's love stories, will make you feel precious, can make you move your heart.

He didn't answer.

I told him so, love and not love may be for you may not really understand, in your opinion love may be like, like may be good feeling, and when in love, the beginning is because of good feeling to make you together, and then good feeling deepen into like. As for like or not, when you two get along, you can feel it inside. The simplest thing is, the usual chat, you send a message, she will see a second back, even if not a second back, back to the slow she will explain the reason with you, the same, you also do, because you are afraid of each other to worry and think more.

She is only willing to hold hands with you, you will meet her, because you are not a person to see, around the people in love, she also saw, but you are still willing to accommodate her, to meet her innocence of love, she will feel that you are very good, to give her a sense of security.

To the right time, she will give you everything, just you do not have to rush, do not have to force her, you are good to her, the same she understands your good, for only pulling the hand, in her opinion you have not given her enough security.

Later, I talked to him a lot, he said he understood how to fall in love, and also seemed to see what love looks like.

Nowadays, there are all kinds of love, but why some love is extra precious.

The preciousness of love is often hard-won, and all kinds of setbacks and trials and tribulations happen when you fall in love, and after two people work together to finally come together, and then understand that the other person are the ones who accompany you for the rest of your life.

It's like, you casually picked up a hundred, with your hard labor to get a hundred, which is more valuable?

In fact, both are the same, but you will feel that hard labor to get the money, just because it is hard to come by.

Nowadays, when you fall in love, if you meet the situation, you will be together directly, more from the needs of the two individuals, both need an object, not clear what the object means, and then anything can happen, more like a kind of early enjoyment.

Perhaps like some people think, together, everything can happen, this is very comfortable, but this time, the value of their own pulled to the minimum, the girl if you meet, do not understand the boys, he may feel that will feel who can be so to you, because you so good to chase, often easy to get their hands on, will not be cherished.

And so through this "hot love", this process is like eating sugar, and then eat more on the tired, there are all kinds of problems, and even derailment, this time sugar is still sweet? Finally feel like this seems meaningless, and even feel that they look down on love, lack of a correct understanding of love.

For girls, to fall in love first of all their own concepts, whether this person is worth trusting, from the pursuit of understanding whether this person is the one they are looking for, in line with the, you can agree to try to get involved. When dating, continue to test (this process is their own judgment). Do not get confused, directly ask him if he loves you ah, the other directly back to the course ah, you are touched.

What kind of test, to his good character, three views of the goods, in the test of him, but also to understand your own want is what kind of person, many people do not know what they want, to talk about a relationship, they feel that he is very good, and then give themselves to him confused. And then they finally realize that he is not, and then the two of them argue constantly.

At the mention of trials, some people may find it offensive.

Do not think about it, you cross a one-way bridge when you are assured directly over? How to test, since the first time through the time will be careful, the second will be bold, why? It is because the first time, the bridge passed your test, so you get a sense of security, and then is for this bridge structure analysis, too bad, they know it is very dangerous.

Others think that's not going to pass, so let's go solo.

The test is so that you can feel at ease and reassured, and then a sense of trust is created.

For boys who have a good feeling, is also to understand a little bit, whether she is the person you want to protect your whole life, marrying a wife is for what? Is to fight with her? Not really, but the person you spend your life protecting.

First of all, exude goodwill towards her, then she doesn't reject it, get the right feedback, and by learning all sorts of information about her, make yourself understand again whether she is worth protecting well for your whole life. Worthy of a good pursuit of her, let her understand that you are worthy of her to rely on, the pursuit of don't monkey rush, like just together want to snuggle together, completely not rush ah, belong to you sooner or later is yours. You will scare her, more should let her take the initiative to lean up, because when she feels you are very reliable, will naturally produce a kind of want to rely on you, because it will give her a sense of security. As a saying goes, even if the sky collapses, she is not afraid.

Two people get along there is always disagreement, perhaps quarrel, but can not affect, you give to her sense of security, do not let her feel do not understand you. This is still what she thinks you? For quarrels, everyone will encounter, handling methods are different, but many people will be separated because of quarrels.

For quarrel problems will not talk more, a talk and too much.

To fall in love should be slowly, you give to her happy (let her feel that you are what she wants to find), you see her happy (you will feel that this is the person you want to protect), two people are very happy, the two people pull a hand will be very satisfied, because you understand that the other person is the right person. Let the relationship stay in that state, without rushing, with too much physical contact between the two. Both understand that when you are fully identified with each other, that is the time to cuddle.

It's important to understand whether or not the other person is compatible with being committed and protected for the rest of your life.

If you don't understand the needs, how can you find love?

Many people in relationships nowadays don't understand what they want? And because they should be in a relationship if they are single, then when they are in a relationship, they don't understand what they really want or how two people should get along. Then it is by the body's instinct to react, more boys, first want to hug, girls think, together hug nothing on the hug, boys and how to satisfy just hug it? Then there are all kinds of ways to hug to other places.

Only when the goal is clear, you can find love.

Once two people get along with the conflict, because the beginning of the lack of understanding, the lack of foundation trust, to produce conflict, it may be contradictory to expand, and finally can only break up.

And will not be because of the kind of time together, both understand each other is the person they are looking for, and then it is hard to get together and cherish each other.

Because of the lack of clarity, resulting in many people now will not fall in love, feel that it is not interesting to fall in love, not to mention that it will not look good to fall in love, there are some people who failed to fall in love, so that he lost confidence in love. Resulting in nowadays people get married very, very little, fall in love is better than being single.

The look of love

For girls: there is a very loving their own, know how to take care of all their emotions, do not have to worry about life. (He has to know himself very well, straight GG)

For guys: to be faithful and get adoration and support from her. (Must be the most worldly and beautiful, direct GG)

For love everyone is different, more people are not clear, and then with a good feeling, do a lot of confused things. Finally have doubts about love, what is the purpose of falling in love? What is the meaning of such a love? A lot of questions arise

Love begins with a good feeling, slowly becomes the two sides of the like (understand what you want, from the test to get assured), the final achievement of each other are in love with each other (completely identified with each other).