The word falling in love is commonly known by you and me. But do you know what is falling in love? What exactly is a relationship?

You may say, talk about the object is to fall in love ah, fall in love is to talk about the object ah.

Talking about objects is to fall in love, but it is not the same as falling in love. Being in love is a feeling created by talking about an object

It's like, the lake is water, water is lake? Water is lake water when it's in the lake.

What is love?

Being in love (liàn ài) is the expression of two people's love for each other. In different times there are different definitions, the modern definition for two people based on certain conditions and common love life ideals, the formation of the most sincere admiration for each other in their hearts, and desire for each other to become their lifelong companion of the strongest, most stable, most dedicated feelings. (From Baidu Encyclopedia)

Love is also characterized, these love characteristics are particularly obvious.

01, the characteristics of love is flavorful
Both sides have a happy, joyful, happy, sometimes sour, bitter flavor. This feeling is for both sides exist, you are together, you will feel happy and joyful flavor.

Instead of being together, only you alone will be happy and joyful, while the other person does not feel, then this is still considered a relationship?

As if shoes, one is still considered a shoe?

Love is mutual, is two common, two people together can feel the flavor.

02, falling in love is characterized by full of attraction
When you are in love, being in love will make you both want to be with each other. When you are together, you will not feel that time passes very slowly, at this time you only have each other's existence in your eyes. Because of the principle of falling in love, it makes you attract each other.

Sometimes, because the conditions do not allow. You have to go home, and she has to go home, resulting in a short separation, but being in love will make you not notice each other because of the distance. You will be on the cell phone to communicate with each other, so that both sides understand that I am by your side. Love will not make you distant because of the distance, but will be closer, this feeling is really beautiful.

03, the characteristics of falling in love can make both sides become silly
It is said that men and women in love are fools, IQ equal to zero. This is true Oh, they actually only have each other in their eyes, will not care about others, in the real love of men and women will lose their minds, not for the reality and difficulties blocked.

Let's take a simple analogy:

Girls say, it's raining, I have no umbrella how to do.

The guy will get wet and run to give the umbrella to the other guy.

Other people will say, you are a fool, it's raining, let her wait until the rain stops, not good enough!

In a guy's eyes, it's just that the person I care about needs me and I have to show up right away. He doesn't think about whether he'll get wet or not, or any other reason, he only has the other person in his eyes.

This is a boy, for a girl there are also like this. Is it silly? It's silly, but it's really cute. This feeling do not know in watching you, understand.

In fact, really do in love to become stupid that only happy happy it? Because less harm and purpose, just happy to feel the love, pure love ------

Love can really make a person become a fool, but there are still people who jumped in defiantly and became a fool. It's just that some people really do turn into a fool. Falling in love is turning both parties into a fool, not you turning yourself into a fool ah. He thinks he's good for the other person, that's being in love. You give your heart to the other person, that's being in love.

Other fools will ask, "Isn't that right? Yes, why not, you give all to each other, want to use all this to move each other, in love, really do not rely on you so stupid to move each other, this is not love ah, this is just your love, wishful thinking. Relying on moving to get in love, some girls will feel that you are so sincere, she also does not go after her favorite person, and then come to slowly accept you.

But this is really in love?

Love is for both parties ah, love has attraction, flavor, can turn people into fools, it's all for both parties. Instead of her having attraction for you, seeing her you have the flavor of happiness, turning yourself into a fool. Is that a relationship? That may be unrequited love, one-sided. Unrequited love, not love.

Now do you understand what being in love is?

To be in love is to be able to both act like fools, you're attracted to each other while the two of you indulge in sweet times.

Maybe you used to be like that, but now it seems like you won't be. Together, it seems like it won't be like it was in the beginning. At that time, see each other will be happy, will giggle, and talk endless words. Now it seems not to be, not once that kind of heart. Is not love, or what? In fact, it is not not in love, only from the relationship to the next stage.

Your love freshness, not as strong as before. From the first acquaintance in love, to the love of bonding, freshness will gradually become less.

Because there are several stages of love, love is not always like this, will be as you get along, slowly change.

Everyone wants a sweet love, but if you don't know what kind of relationship is love, you may become a fool, a love fool wanting to fall in love. Xiao Zhou, also in the life also met many love fool.