While Valentine’s Day may be one of the most clichéd “Hallmark holidays,” that doesn’t mean you have to settle for the typical dinner and a movie routine. In fact, relationship experts suggest thinking outside the box this year to create a truly memorable date.
One fun option? Break out the board games or puzzles. “Pull them out, because it’s a good idea to date at home,” suggests the article. Not only is it more interactive than just watching TV, but games like the conversation-starting “Where Should We Start?” from Esther Perel can actually bring you and your partner closer together.
For a themed date night, try cooking a meal inspired by a specific cuisine or film. “Do you like Italian food? Cook your favorite Italian food and watch an Italian based movie,” the article recommends. Or go all-out with a “Harry Potter” themed feast and movie marathon.
Another unique idea? Bar hop to a few local spots for drinks and conversation. “Whether your relationship is new or you have been together for years, you can always learn something new,” the article notes. Use prompts like the “36 questions that trigger love” to dive deeper.
Of course, sometimes the best Valentine’s Day dates involve doing absolutely nothing at all. “Promise to spend the day together and congratulate your relationship in any way you want. Just a day off, together is a kind of congratulations!” the article enthuses. Sleep in, order breakfast in bed, and simply enjoy each other’s company.
Finally, the article suggests writing a letter to your future self as a unique way to commemorate the holiday. “Write down the spouse you love or your relationship, or where you want to be this time next year. As long as you write down what you want your spouse to see in a year, you know they will enjoy reading.”
The key, according to the experts, is to focus less on flashy grand gestures and more on quality time and meaningful connection. After all, the most romantic celebrations often come from the heart, not the wallet.